On Mon, 17 Mar 2025 21:50:26 -0700, Alan says...
Post by AlanPost by SkeeterLike always you says something that's not being said.
That is an accurate quote of what he said.
You lying sack of faggot.
You ALWAYS put lies into others' mouths, because you can't argue the topic as
it is... you HAVE to make shit up, JUST so you THINK you have an argument,
because of your narcissism.
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Have you ever wondered how to make a Alan, the narcissist, miserable and what
makes him afraid or triggered? (maybe for a second... then it's gone)
Just for the record, trying to make Alan, the narcissist, miserable might
have its place for a short period of time, but I don't recommend focusing on
it for too long as this will inevitably get old.
But, if you need a quik fix, let's get into the top things all narcissists,
like Alan, hate.
How to Make Alan, the narcissist, Miserable
Lack Of Acknowledgment: (filter on ignore)
Even though he KNOWS he's being ignored, he continues to reply, as if ANYONE
really cares, other than himself. THAT is narcissism.
It's no secret that most narcissists, like Alan, revel in admiration and
validation (except for 'closet narcissists', like Alan). Alan depends on
constant approval to maintain his sense of intrinsic worth. To achieve this
goal, he TRIES to absorb (or steal) the energy of other people.
"Prove it."
Do you ever wonder why narcissists, like Alan, don't seem to mind the
negative attention? It's because negative attention also fuels his
narcissistic fire.
ANY attention, even NEGATIVE attention, IS STILL ATTENTION, and any form of
attention gives him the incentive to keep going. It gives him the motivation
to keep proving himself (by making others prove THEMSELVES.
In fact, he often likes negative attention better, because if you're still
amused by his emotional crimes, he can try to exploit this.
Therefore, a lack of acknowledgment is the real threat. To Alan, the
narcissist, indifference is even more of an issue than hatred. Alan's rather
you have a negative opinion than have no opinion at all.
(sick fuck)
Narcissists, like Alan, can't stand it when no one is paying attention to
him. Alan doesn't know how to feel important or special if he isn't the
center of the universe or consuming someone's thoughts. This is also why the
traditional Grey Rock method is often pointless and why complete avoidance is
the best route (or extreme modified contact... just ignore the sick fuck).
When People Speak Factually:
Have you ever paid close attention to how Alan, the narcissist, speaks? He
ALWAYS trying to belittle those he THINKS are below his station.
Additionally, through the use of cognitive empathy, he's spent his entire
life observing the emotional language of other people, ESPECIALLY RUSSIAN
SPORTS OFFICIALS and using it to his advantage. So, when you speak in facts
instead of using emotion, he intuitively understands he has less of an upper
hand.
Therefore, he hates it when someone challenges him with facts instead of
emotion. Alan will usually retaliate with more arguing or hysteria. PROVE IT!
PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT!
This childish response simply shows that he feel out-of-control. Alan's
attempt to elevate the conversation's intensity by throwing an emotional
temper tantrum. PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT!
PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT!
If anything, this dynamic only highlights the narcissist's immaturity. His
inability to absorb facts demonstrates his incompetence in approaching most
adult interactions.
Authority:
Narcissists, like Alan, detest authority. That's because he resents having to
answer to anybody but himself (mommy orders him around, further compounding
his anger).
"Ski lifts are closed... too much snow." Bu bu but snow is just a thing of
the past, Alan says, even though we're seeing snow levels we saw in the 70s,
when CO² was MUCH lower.
Any sense of authority threatens his inherent desire for power and control.
"You can't ski here, bunny."
While narcissists, like Alan, can be intelligent, he often come across as
combative and unfit in professional environments. If confronted by his
inappropriate behavior, he tends to deny or rationalize his part. PROVE IT!
PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE IT! PROVE
IT! PROVE IT!
Of course, it's no surprise that most authority figures dislike working with
narcissists, like Alan. Supervisors (LOL) find him unruly and unreasonable.
Alan can't understand why the person can't follow basic directions without
such volatile reactions.
Being Told No:
Of all things, Alan, the narcissist, hates being told no (and actually
following through with it) tops the list. Narcissists, like Alan, are used to
manipulating and weaseling his way into getting what he wants.
Often, he'll pull all the stops to accomplish this task. He's spent his whole
life charming people to meet his needs.
That's why telling him no, and being adamant on your stance, often causes
such an angry reaction. Alan, the narcissist, isn't just upset about the
denial - he's downright confused by it!
Narcissists, like Alan, can't actually fathom why someone would refuse him.
Because he lacks real empathy, he can't understand what must be going on in
your mind. Moreover, even if he tries to comprehend it, he refuses to accept
this reality.
Implementing Consequences:
Have you ever tried to set a boundary with Alan, the narcissist,? How well
did it go? Most likely, you tried to implement a limit, and he reacted in one
of three ways:
Dismissing you altogether and gas-lighting your feelings, acknowledging his
mistake (LOL), and then doing nothing to change.
Narcissists, like Alan, can't accept any real consequences. Alan can't see
when he's wrong, and he can't understand how someone would ever think he's
wrong. And even if the narcissist understood this, he simply wouldn't care.
As a result, he tends to react disproportionately to boundaries and serious
conversations as a means to intimidate you and force you into compliance.
Unfortunately, many people simply give up on trying to implement consequences
with narcissists, like Alan.
(filters set to ignorte)
Losing At Anything:
Narcissists, like Alan, can resemble toddlers, in that he tend to be
extremely sore losers. Alan struggles to accept losing, and he also tends to
lash out when it happens. A few scenarios may occur:
Alan repeatedly proclaims a person on Usenet is incompetent. Alan's attempt
to defame or humiliate the winner. Alan pretends he didn't care about
winning. Alan insists that he "let the other person" take the spotlight. Alan
refuses to accept that he lost and awkwardly acts as if he's the actual
winner.
Public Humiliation:
Because narcissists, like Alan, are sore losers, he can't handle real or
perceived public humiliation. Alan just can't tolerate the threat of failure.
To him, public humiliation is the ultimate form of defeat.
(and THAT'S why he HAS to be the last poster in a thread, if he has felt that
he's been slighted, in the least)
We all know that narcissists, like Alan, have incredibly fragile egos. When
he believes someone is making fun of him or if he's not the perceived expert
or authority in a public setting, it jolts his existence. As a result, he'll
do anything to protect his fragile ego. Some common responses include:
Laughing it off in public only to lash out later
Making up lies about anyone who is a real expert. ("Dr. Ian Clark is not a
REAL climatologist!!!")
Expectations of Commitment
Most narcissists, like Alan, are terrible with commitment. Although he
believes he deserves all senses of loyalty, he doesn't usually provide it
himself. As a result, when he gets into relationships (mommy only), he
doesn't consider her needs. He's only accounting for his own emotions,
impulses, and desires.
Unfortunately, his mother holds onto wistful hope about her narcissist
changing. She listens to how the narcissist praises and adores her. She holds
onto fleeting promises that this time will be different.
Yet, Alan, the narcissist makes all the rules. Alan decides what he wants to
do, and he does it when he wants to do it. Therefore, he can break and change
the rules in ways that suits him.
Prove it! Prove it! Prove it! Prove it! Prove it! Prove it! Prove it! Prove
it! Prove it! Prove it!
99% of Other People:
How many friends does your narcissist have? Probably very few (more like
NONE). Usually, his only friends are other people who validate his
narcissism, like mommy.
Subsequently, how often do you hear Alan complain about other people? (ALL
THE TIME) More times than you can count, probably! That's because a single
wrongdoing often results in lifetime resentment. One mistake tarnishes an
entire reputation.
Narcissists, like Alan, struggle to get along with anyone who doesn't fit
into his falsified worldview. Alan can't stand to be challenged. Alan can't
tolerate the ideas that other people may know more than him.
If he's a cerebral narcissist, he is convinced that he is unique and should
only associate with other special or high-status individuals. In fact, when
confronted with anything that contradicts his sense of god-like stature, you
can bet that his reaction will be explosive and malicious.
Therefore, narcissists, like Alan, can't tolerate people who actually live in
reality. That's why you rarely see people with strong boundaries tolerating
narcissists, like Alan, for very long.
When You Change The Status Quo:
Narcissists, like Alan, hate change when it's out of his control. When you
challenge Alan, the narcissist, he remains in a defeating pattern full of
resentment and frustration, lashing out to make himself feel dominate.
Prove it!
I did.